Suppose your possessions talked to you. Sure, your alarm clock tells you to get out of bed. Your Alexa gives you the weather forecast. But then it gets weird, as you flip on the bathroom lights, the burned out bulb says, “Hmm, still haven’t replaced me?”, as you take your shower, year hear your 17-year-old…
Category: Freedom; the escape
Freedom: How we sold our house, gave away our possessions, quit job and moved to the beach in Michigan
August 16th: Creating Happiness
Picture this: You have found your beach, and settled into your routine. You wake up in the morning, walk/run your beach, stop by your favorite beach shack for a little brunch. You go back to your humble abode, write for a few hours. Then back to the beach, relax and watch the waves while doing…
August 14th: Happiness and the General’s Horse
There I was, in a restaurant in Kansas City, relating to my uncle just how completely miserable I was at work. The details would make a good story. But one I will not write. The people involved in egregious management and cultural blunders are long gone. So many good people, also gone, and doing well…
August 13th: Happiness… a tale of two plants
(ok, still another post to go before I talk about my personal happiness) Remember the previous happiness post… 50% of your happiness genetically based, 10% from circumstances… with 40% based on actions/activities that we control? Now lets look at work happiness… picture these two factory floor cultures: Twenty+ years have passed. Since I worked in…
August 12th: Happiness, the smiley face curve
I had a professor who suggested plotting our individual level of happiness and income once per year. The result, for most people illustrated that as income rose over time, happiness didn’t. Much more recently, research has been published showing a U curve to happiness. Very high as a kid and young adult, then slowly dropping…
August 10th: Creating happiness
Researchers say 50% of your happiness is genetically based. Seems outrageously large at first. But, we all know people who are forever pessimistic, sad, complainers. “How are you doing today?” is always greeted with a list of complaints, ailments, or on their best of days an “ok”. And then there are those who always exude…
August 9th: Happiness… What is it? How can it be created? How I lost mine. How I got it back.
(this will be a multipart post, as I like to keep them short, quick reads) Happiness… you know it, when you feel it. Is it hard to define, a multifaceted jewel that changes from every angle? Or can you put it in just two boxes? Happiness in the moment: Your team just won the World…
July 26th: Apartment Living Revisited
Almost three months ago, I drove to Michigan, alone, racing ahead of the movers. Our house finally empty. Going from 3,800 square feet plus a 3 car garage to 1100 square feet and a one car garage… with neighbors soon to be only a wall and ceiling away. I stood outside in the cold breeze,…
July 25th: Blue Mind
I’ve been reading this book, about the scientifically proven positive effects of water on the mind. Intuitively, I believe most people know it, and standing on the shore of Lake Michigan, over and over again… we truly feel it. I paid $11 for the book on Amazon, but a decent online review is free… and…
July 23rd: I Love Mondays!!!
First the bad news. We stayed home last night watching TV, it was cloudy and we thought the sunset wouldn’t be spectacular. The above is what we missed. This morning we headed to the beach, our beach. Ours and just the birds. Gotta love Mondays, this weekend the beach had hundreds of people. The double…